mik1of3's Blog

From what I understand, she says they tried for years for their own child. When she FINALLY got pregnant, he was convinced that she was cheating on him (which is why when asked at the time why he divorced her, he'd reply "Nicole knows what she did"). What gets me is that he waits until she tells him she's pregnant, takes her to Vegas to renew their vows, then a couple weeks afterward, slams her with divorce papers, and the stress causes a miscarriage. They did a DNA test on the baby at her request..and it was his. SCUMBAG!!
A lot of people do think, though, that her refusal to convert to Scientology from Catholicism was the main reason behind his decision to divorce her. The pregnancy and his disigenous reply "she knows what she did" could apply to maybe a promise she made to convert.
His first wife, MiMi Rogers, said that Tom considered his, uh, manhood an instrument, and that he believed in keeping the instrument pure. Ie...low libido.
All in all, I think she got the better end of the deal. Her career and life has surely blossomed since her divorce from King Crazy.

Thanks. It's been coming for some time..we've been struggling for over a year. We tried so hard, even with marital counseling from our pastor AGAIN (we went through it once in 2001) we couldn't overcome the obstacles. For all that we love(d) each other, we're just too different. He's Peter Pan...I'm Professor MacGonigall.

Since both of us had failed our first marriages, we were determined to stick it out; hoping it was a phase, a down time, and we did everything we could, I hope. But I couldn't be what he needed me to be, and he couldn't be what I needed him to be. I guess that's what you get when you marry after six months of dating; although we had known each other mostly our whole life. (He was eight, I was six, when he moved in across the street.)