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Cookie like to compare life to a "video game"--

If you & I live together, & I have a hundred video games--

They are adventure games, &  the object is to follow paths, avoid being eaten, & finally "claim the prize"!

If I set there for "days", weeks, playing one game--& FINALLY figure out the path--& win the prize--I go on to another game--

YOU--following behind me--play the first game also--

I can show you the way--

I can tell you which paths to take, so you can "claim the prize" also in a short time---but you choose to waste your time making the same mistakes I made--??

That, too me, is a waste of VALUABLE time, but isn't life like that?

We can learn our "different options" from others, & accomplish SO MUCH more--

but we choose to do it "our way"--??

(Sometimes we learn--& do it the right way--later on when no one knows it--!)

We go to schools to learn "how others do something"--learn proven ways to succeed--

but if a friend, parent, co-worker suggests options, we refrain from utilizing them--?

Strange--?? 

I will NEVER understand THAT philosophy of life--???

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Wonderful-World read my blog view my photos
Jul 21, 2007 | 11:27 AM

I think from an educational angle (doctors, for instance), to learn proven ways is essential. But I believe that most individuals need to learn life's lessons on their own, in their own way, in their own time or the lessons aren't learned. Learning from life's lessons tends to make one wiser; not learning (doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result) is a waste. I'm talking about life's lessons in general, not criminals, drugs, religion, etc. Most parents would sell their souls to prevent their kids from making the same mistakes the parents made. But if we didn't think for ourselves, we'd be a cookie-cutter (no pun) society of robots.

jprjpvrk read my blog view my photos
Jul 21, 2007 | 11:41 AM

There is nothing wrong with trying or experimenting with new ways of doing something. The way that you made it to the end of that video game may not be the only or best way. It isn’t beneficial for society that people cease to think and question things that has already been successfully mastered because we wouldn’t have innovation.

houstonsceptic read my blog
Jul 21, 2007 | 3:28 PM

2 "VERY" interesting comments from 2 of MY favorite bloggers!
I guess I was making a LOT of reference to "the wisdom" we older folks have aquired, & how our youth does NOT utilize it!
I totally agree with the concept of "developing better ways"--
BUT- I think as a novice--you utilize what you have, TILL you can make it better--??
I always liked the fastest/best method available--then (on the side) I would try other ways to see if I could improve on it--?
NOT--just "develope you OWN techniques, because you don't like to follow orders"--?

It is like "buying a car"--
We ALL have had differing experiences in that field--
But we all finally got to our "best way" trying ALL methods--
Not sure going through ALL the same methods over again is right. (but in this endeavor--I am not sure there is a "RIGHT WAY"!)
Thank you both for your comments--MUCH respect for you both from Cookie!!

Sassy11 read my blog
Jul 21, 2007 | 9:32 PM

As always you have thoughts that many of us can gain wisdom from Cookie. At least along the way we can ponder them.

Think that in regard to your thoughts, many people have to respect the person. Think of it as a mentor. Sometimes your mentor can steer you in the right direction. Yet, every good mentor knows that eventually the student must go on their way to see what they have gained from the mentorship.

At times, what you might think as someone not following your directions (not you specifically, but the general consensus), is actually a retainment of knowledge. To utilize those skills when appropriate. At times, the right opportunity comes along and the person can then see what the outcome can bring due to the knowledge gained.

Remember also, through our mistakes we learn. I've always mentioned this one to my dearest friends. Simply because, at times someone may take you to task for what they deem as not retaining the knowledge through the tutorship. In actuality, the human process is that we retain more through the mistake. By making the mistake, when then realize that it was a grievous error.

Think of all the times guys dump the box out. Toss out the instructions. Have left over parts and then shake their head. Some people just can't follow the instruction manual. It might be arduous and boring to them to read all the way through them. Yet, by building it from the ground up, they are then satisfied. Until they try to roll the cart and then say, "Oh! That is what those set of wheels were for." What works for one person, may not be wh

Sassy11 read my blog
Jul 21, 2007 | 9:34 PM

--continued --

What works for one person, may not be what God's direction for that person might be. We all have gifts and talents. It is how we make the most of them and use them in this world that counts. Just a thought. But then again, I'm not a bright cookie.

houstonsceptic read my blog
Jul 22, 2007 | 2:55 PM

Very good response, Sassie--
You are always a pleasant & astute responder--

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The cookie monster-- is a person in the twilight of my career, who believes in speaking the truth, as I see it, regardless of the consequences. It is not the "best thing sometimes" to do, but only in addressing problems, can we change them! I have lived in multiple societies, played every game, and been a success in almost every venture I have entered. I've endured many trials, which gives me a unique ability to have an intelligent opinion on diverse subjects. I am cautious of schemes developed by others. I am not perfect, or judgemental. I do NOT want to appear to be a "Know-it all" I am a devout Christian who early in life developed a "path with God", have stayed on the same path and devotion throughout my life. I don't blog for popularity. I blog in hopes "I" can learn something--in hopes I can help someone else--& address the serious side of life.

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