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Imagine if you will, your child is a kindergartener.  Now imagine if they had a difference that set them apart:  Perhaps the color of their skin, their eye color, they had a physical deformity, or they had allergies that made them sneeze or cough more often than the other children -- basically something that is an inate part of themselves that they cannot change. 

Imagine now, that your child is put up in front of the class and each child is made to say what they "hate" about that child.  Then the vote is put to the class?  Do we let the child stay in the class or does the child have to leave?

Sounds like an episode of reality TV.  But on reality TV, these people are, for the most part, adults.  Imagine how you would feel standing in front of that class hearing these things.  You would be traumatized.  Your feelings would be hurt. 

This was the lesson of the day in a Port St. Lucie classroom this past week.   That day, Wendy Portillo, a 12-year veteran teacher, taught the children a lesson of hate, a lesson of bullying, and a lesson that if people aren't like you, they don't have to deal with them.

When his mother went to pick up Alex Barton at school, he was in the nurse's office and was quite shaken up.  When she asked the nurse what happened, the nurse referred her to the teacher.  The teacher told her what she had done, not seeing anything wrong with it.  Apparently during this "lesson" the other students said he was "disgusting" and "annoying."  His only friend he had made had initially voted for him to stay, but felt tremendous pressure by the teacher to change his vote and now he feels terribly that he did.  The teacher, now denying she told the parent this, apparently told the mom that when he was voted out of class, she asked him what he would do now.  His reply was, "Go to the principal's office?"  She said, "They don't want you there either."   The teacher then asked him how he felt and he said, "I feel sad."  He then left the office and spent the rest of the day in the nurse's office (and the parent was not called at all that she needed to pick him up). 

This child was in the process of being evaluated for a type of autism called Asperger's.  These kids are noted for their social isolation and eccentric behaviors.  The teacher was a part of that process and knew very well the evaluation process was going on.  The evaluation process takes literally months.   How does a lesson in social isolation teach a child who already wants to be by themselves want to be part of the group? 

He now is reliving the incident and spent Thursday night saying over and over again, "I'm not special."  The child now starts screaming as the mother drops the siblings off at the same school.  He will not return to the school because he has been harmed emotionally. 

Portillo, the teacher, told the local police that the vote was only meant to be for the day, not for good, so she is admitting she did this. 

Earlier this week, she was on the Early Show on CBS. 

Comments from all around the world are being sent to the family as well as being posted on-line.  Even other teachers and paraprofessionals are saying this woman deserves to be fired; some fellow teachers throughout the country say she needs to lose her license and not teach again.

According to the Florida State Board of Education Rule 6B-1.006 FAC, The Principles of Professional Conduct of the Education Professional in Florida, she violated four of these codes of conducts, which can get her license suspended.  These are:

(3) Obligation to the student requires that the individual (meaning the teacher)

(a)  Shall make reasonable effort to protect the student from conditions harmful to learning and/or to the student's mental and/or physical health and/or safety.

(e)  Shall not intentionally expose a student to unnecessary embarrassment or disparagement.

(f) Shall not intentionally violate or deny a student's legal rights

(g)  Shall not harass or discriminate against any student on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, age, national or ethnic origin, political beliefs, marital status, handicapping condition, sexual orientation, or social and family background and shall make reasonable effort to assure that each student is protected from harassment or discrimination.

Right now she has been removed from the classroom and assigned to the district offices pending the investigation.

This is not about the child's right to be in that classroom as a workup was in progress to determine if he had autism and if he did have autism, discussions would be held as to what would be most appropriate for him in the least restrictive environment as the IDEA law states. 

This comes on the heels of a new report where a regular education child's parents sent a digital recorder to school with him in Indiana so they could hear how the teachers he complained about were treating him.  In the recording, two women can be heard, one of whom tells the boy he is being pathetic.  When another student came over to find out what was wrong, she tells the class about Ross' behavior problem and says, "If you want to act like him, then go ahead and be his friend."  This teacher has been suspended. 

So my question blogger is this -- how would you feel if your child came home and told you they had been voted out of class and were humiliated for no apparent reason in the process?   Secondly, with all the newest information coming out of classrooms via digital recorders and camera phones, do you believe we should take the step that day care centers have taken where there are cameras in every classroom (with audio) and you can sign on with a special password and see, at any moment, what is going on in that classroom?  You can see the behavior of all -- the teacher, your child (and if your child is acting out, you can appropriately discipline them at home).   Supreme Court has already ruled that audiotaping of a classroom does not violate confidentality issues. 

I for one would welcome this as my nonverbal child cannot tell me how his day was and I'm at the mercy of the school staff, some who are good and decent public servants and some who haven't been. 

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Dudester read my blog
May 31, 2008 | 2:20 PM

I myself have hyperlexia (closely related to Asperger's). My experience in school was horrible to say the least. I could go on and on, but it happened more than once where teachers either humiliated me in class, or the teacher basically got together with the class to make fun of me.

This diagnosis didn't come until I was forty, but I don't think it would've mattered one way or the other as public schools care little to nothing about the students they are supposed to look after.

My educational experience improved vastly after I went to a private school and my teachers encouraged my strengths and tried to work on my weaknesses.

As to an answer to your question-how would I feel if my child was humiliated like that? Because of repressed anger at past injustices, I would get my pastor (to calm down and control me) when I went to the school to talk to both the principal and teacher. Working with difficulty, I would explain to them that God had better help the teacher that does that because I will visit legal wrath upon the school and not rest until the best that that teacher could hope for is washing cars at the local car wash when I am done.

Addendum-I understand that Kids R Us and a few other child centers have that you can log on and watch option.

Sassy11 read my blog
May 31, 2008 | 3:16 PM

This is so shocking and horrible PBMom. I'm with you on this one. The Teacher that did this to this child is not right. I don't care what anyone's situation is, no one at all should be a part to bullying. One of my friends this week was telling me about a situation with her daughter. Her daughter is confined to a wheel chair. She told me that people (strangers mind you) voice their opinions to her constantly about her child confined to a wheelchair. The poor child cannot walk. This is why she is confined to a wheelchair. It is pitiful what people do. This story that you told, is heartbreaking. My prayers go out to that poor child and family.

kagua2 read my blog
May 31, 2008 | 5:44 PM

That teacher needs to be more than fired! I absolutely HATE, yes HATE people who ridicule or condemn children for being different, disabled, handicapped, or whatever; you get my point. For an adult to stand a child up in front of the class and give other children the opportunity to ridicule him like that, what in the hell was she thinking? I would be on the phone to my attorney so fast...this makes me so angry. There is a mentally disabled door greeter at the WalMart in Porter who is relatively young. I always make a point of greeting him and calling him by name. My daughter told me once that he probably doesn't remember who I am from visit to visit. My response was so what? People desire acknowledgement in a positive manner. BTW, Mom there is an article in the May issue of Elle about autism that I was going to e-mail you, but it hasn't been posted online yet. Anyhow, it's entitled, "The Lost Boy" and you can go to Elle.com to check on it if you want. I'll keep checking; it's a good article.

BlondeMafia76 read my blog view my photos
May 31, 2008 | 7:40 PM

After an initial calm down period so that I didn't go down there and wring someone's neck.. It would have to come down to this woman being fired and a public apology given. She has obviously learned no manners and common decency. She is "disgusting", not that child. I hope that the school district does something about this..
Personally I am fine with cameras being in schools. They need to be. If no one is doing anything wrong, then they have nothing to be afraid of.

teachchick read my blog
May 31, 2008 | 8:31 PM

That teacher should pay for her reprehensible actions with her job and the school district should be punished for hiring an individual who is obviously emotionally disturbed herself, with some type of monetary compensation for emotional damages to the child and his family. I teach in an inner city school. I would have no problem at all with cameras in schools. I think they would be beneficial to the entire school community - parents, teachers, students, administration, etc, etc.

Isci_the_Weatherman read my blog view my photos
Jun 2, 2008 | 7:39 AM

Two words...Home School

PBMom read my blog view my photos
Jun 2, 2008 | 4:04 PM

Well, I'll have to say it is nice to hear you all agree with this. Some comments left on CBS.com and the local newspaper site that carried the story basically focused on the child with the disability that how he shouldn't have been in the classroom in the first place. She has been teaching 12 years. I wonder how often she used this approach and not getting caught because fear of reprisal (the kids worried about her wrath if they told their parents). I'm really tired of reading these stories about teachers. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of wonderful teachers out there and these comments are in no way directed towards you, but these people just taint the profession. Maybe if salaries were higher they would attract better people. Right now, school districts have to go ahead and hire whoever applies to fill the classes as long as nothing serious comes up on their criminal background check. These are our tax dollars. We need to demand our local school districts do a better job, and if they can't, vote them out. But cameras in the classroom need to become the standard because I can tell you, when people know a camera is watching them at a light, they don't run the light; if cameras are watching our classrooms and parents have special passwords to log on at any time to see any class their child is in, there is a higher standard of accountability.

PBMom read my blog view my photos
Jun 2, 2008 | 4:08 PM

Isci: Home school is an option, but your tax dollars are still going to an unaccountable school district, and your tax dollars going towards teaching or not teaching or poor teaching as the case may be. We don't have an option to withhold our tax money to the school district because they would take our house, although I know some people within the disabilities community are talking about doing this, creating their own voucher system by withholding their tax dollars.

PBMom read my blog view my photos
Jun 2, 2008 | 6:44 PM

If you all want to see the story about the Indiana boy (the boy without disabilities) and he, too, is a kindergarten student, go to:

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Story?id=4945581&page=1

These were some things said to that child (this is a second child):
What they heard over four hours of tape shocked them. Woodward can be heard telling Gabriel that he had "tortured and tormented" her and other teachers all year.

"I've been more than nice to you all year long and you've been ignorant, selfish, self-absorbed, the whole thing! I'm done!" Woodward says to Gabriel on the tape.

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Mother of a 12-year-old child with autism, mild hypotonic CP, dyspraxia, MR and a seizure disorder. Married for 15 years. Have worked full-time as a telecommuter for the last 19 years. I've been the special needs minister at our church, but time demands haven't allowed me to go back. Published before in "Catholic Digest", and different poems in several books of poetry. I love 24, American Idol, Lost, Jericho and Sci-Fi (Stargate Atlantis, SG-1, Farscape, Star Trek, Battlestar Galactica). My husband and I are huge movie buffs. I love to swim. I love golden retrievers. They are awesome dogs. I used to sing/take formal vocal lessons and had a formal vocal recital at Hamman Hall at Rice University in the mid 1980's. Although my friends have encouraged me that I need to write about my life story, I've made several attempts and it isn't going too well. I love blogging. It's my new creative outlet. I am a member of Texas School Watch, an advocacy group bent on exposing misuse of your tax dollars within school districts. Join the fight at: http://texasschoolwatch10
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