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by Hala from Webster, TX

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Here is an interesting point for discussion.  How much do you know about your spouse? I am not talking about past relationships or dirty laundry.  I am specifically talking about things like salary, passwords, social security number, etc?  If you do know these things, why do you feel that it is important to know? Do you want to know?  Are you going to close out of this blog and ask them these questions? Do you care?

 Another interesting piece of information to post...if you do know all of this information, how long did it take you to acquire it?

 

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KristineGalvan read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2007 | 12:51 PM

My soon-to-be husband and I started sharing this type of information before we got engaged, but we were at the point where we were talking about engagement and marriage. We know each others' salaries, bonuses, and passwords- not because we dont trust each other, but because that information is important in case something happens to one of us.

I dont even have my own social security number memorized, but we both know where we keep important documents like ss cards, birth certificates, passports.

Again...just in case.

cocacolabethw read my blog
Apr 4, 2007 | 1:36 PM

Well, I have known my husband since we were 5 years old and my family knows his family, so I guess I have a head start. I know his TDL#, SS#, passwords, etc. by heart. He on the other hand just calls me his little rolodex and asks me for the numbers. We have been married 20 years in July and I totally trust him. Peace out!!

Dread-Head read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2007 | 2:07 PM

Not married, but:

1. Wouldn't want to know how much money she made.

2. I would trust her enough not to want to know her passwords.

3. A SSN and TDL however I'd have to know.

txnchick417 read my blog
Apr 4, 2007 | 3:00 PM

I know his SSN, TDL, & password to his fantasy football leagues. (The 3 most important things to have "just in case". LOL) I know how much $$$ he makes, and have since I met him (I file our taxes). I don't have the password to his voice mail because I trust him totally and don't want it.

He has no clue on any of my info, not because I haven't told him, but because he has me to remember everything for him.

Robin9223 read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2007 | 3:50 PM

I know his TDL because I am the one that writes the check for his surcharges on tickets he recieved. I know his SS# because I take care of the bank account and insurance. I know his password because I just do.

And "just in case".

He, on the other hand, doesn't know mine and I think its because he just doesn't care or its not important enough for him to know them right now. I wouldn't care if he did know them. He should know them "just in case".

jeeterbug read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2007 | 3:55 PM

i've been in the same relationship for almost a year now. we both know how much ea other makes. we haven't exchanged any passwords to email or voice mail. i don't feel that's necessary, we both trust ea other. we both have keys to ea other's living quarters and i have the alarm code at her house. i don't have her tdl or ssn. i know i would totally get it if i asked for it. due to her line of work, she can easily get my tdl if she wanted to and could find out just about anything from my background and history. so w/that being said, there's not really a whole lot i COULD hide...lol.

venus_infusion read my blog
Apr 4, 2007 | 4:15 PM

I only know how much he makes because he told me. I don't know his SSN or Driver's license number. Then again, we're not living together, we're seperated by states. I don't know his passwords and don't need to know them just as well, he doesn't need to know mines. He has no idea how much I make - him knowing that I do work, is enough.

mik1of3 read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2007 | 4:30 PM

I've known my husband since I was 8 and he was 10, so like cocacolabethw, I know alot more than I probably should. I know his SSN, how much he makes, the name of his first everyone and everything, his favorite color, his favorite movie...But we've been married for almost 8 years now, so of course any wife would know that stuff!
He knows more than he wants to, he says..in his eyes, my daughter was an immaculate conception and I was untouched by anyone else when we met again in 1999.

mik1of3 read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2007 | 4:32 PM

As for passwords and such, he says he doesn't know mine and doesn't want to know them. He'd be afraid to log on to where I go and see what I've said about him, done, and shopped!

Ignorance is bliss he says..at least about computer stuff.

warriorray read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2007 | 7:41 PM

not married but there are some things that your girlfriend or spouse doesn't need to know.
what good is a password if someone else knows it. if your spouse knows when you get your bonuses she'll know when to hit you up for extra money, there goes your bonus.important stuff like ssn. where you keep important documents, and stuff like that she needs to know.

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